14 November

Share your toys, Gladys. Back on selfish, if we say the antidote to selfish is generosity and giving and sharing, I think we’re doomed to fail. All human progress is finding a way to transform something important into ‘what’s in it for me’? The sacrificing ideal is idealistic tosh I think, in love, or in any other way. What’s in it for me is true realism, because it forces you to focus on commonalities between people. Find that thing that unites, rather than flipping constantly between hugging the dolls and giving them away.