9 May

Obviously unhinged. But there is also something here that’s important, for violence against women. Ask any police man or woman how many women are actually attracted to violent men. How many plead with police not to arrest the bastard beating them up, because they ‘love him’ and ‘he doesn’t mean it’. The joke phrase for it is love of the ‘bad boy’. It’s real. Women have their own Andrew Tates, here’s one of them. They’re much more numerous than we want to believe. And no this isn’t to make women to blame for the violence against them. It’s to understand all of the dimensions of the problem, rather than the social media team sports version of it.