15 January

Peoples’ desires are always much more complex than the ideas and rules we try to invent to contain them. It doesn’t make every desire good, but at the same time we tend to be puritanical with rules, as if desires were very easily understood. “I find a strong, loving male figure controlling me a huge turn on,” she says. “When I’m with my Daddy (partner), I’m submissive, but there is safety in that. He can punish me, but I know it’s for my own good. When I watch daddy porn I’m turned on by the control.”